Saturday, April 9, 2011

I Am My Grandpa's Favorite!

       I love my grandpa!  And he loves me!  A couple of years ago we picked up my brother from the airport together.  Grandpa stayed up half the night talking with Matt and I suddenly realized:  He loves my brother too!  I had no idea.  I mean, I knew that he loved Matt.  But I didn't know he loved him as much as me!  My grandpa has always made me feel so special, I just figured I was his favorite. :-)
Our most recent time together, Christmas 2010.  I need to print this for the frame.  Just in case you think all my favorite pictures all have my grandpa with his eyes closed:  they aren't!  That's as much as he can open his eyes and smile at the same time. :-)
       (I feel the need to add a disclaimer:  I'm not always great at accurately recounting the events that happened yesterday.  So I'm sure some of these memories, having been filtered through the glasses of childhood and carried through the past 28 years, may have inaccuracies.  Enjoy them for the comfort they bring, just the same).
       My grandpa has a great sense of humor.  Ever since I was a little kid he's had a collection of annual jokes.  The start of school: "I've got my new backpack all ready for tomorrow.  What time are we catching the bus in the morning?"  Halloween: "Sure hope my snowsuit fits over this costume."  Christmas: "I hope Santa doesn't get lost again.  He didn't make it to my house last year ...", etc.  In the past couple of years grandpa and I have taken 3 trips together down to AZ to see my aunt and uncle.  This picture is from Easter 2008.  Grandpa is always telling me that he is going to email me and the other day he said he was going to Twitter.  Pretty sure he's getting that from the news, lol.
Grandpa arriving for Christmas morning.
Grandpa singing Christmas carols in German with Aunt Clara, Uncle Alvin, and Aunt Ardena. Well, my aunts do most of the singing, but grandpa and Uncle Alvin are generally good sports. :-)
This is my very favorite picture of grandpa and I!  Not only is he wearing the hat for my 4th birthday - he looks happy about it!  I LOVE THIS PICTURE!
       My grandfather, Richard Rueben Schenk, has celebrated his 86th birthday. Married for 56 years to my late grandmother, Viola Edna Schenk, he has been an example to me of faithfulness.  I was in 5th grade when my grandma experienced the first symptoms of what would be a long and painful illness.  I remember grandpa sitting beside her bed.  I remember him learning how to work with pantyhose and fix hair so he could take grandma to church the way he knew she wanted to go.  After grandma's eyesight worsened, I used to help her paint her toenails.  I remember grandpa making me redo them after he came home one day and they were bright blue with glitter, since he knew that she wouldn't have approved!  My grandpa loved my grandma in sickness and in health, and I will never forget watching his care for her and the legacy of faithfulness he has passed down to me.
       My grandparents live a mile up the road and my grandpa continues to work on the family farm with my dad.  When I was a kid I had constant access to my parents and my grandparents.  Us kids helped out, but make no mistake about it:  we were the spoiled kind of farm kids.  I'm sure you would have had a hard time convincing us of it then, but we truly did not have to do as much as the generations before us!  Anyway, grandpa was our snack supplier.  He figured if we had to hoe beets we at least needed a pop and some ice cream.  He was also good motivation.  Hoeing beets doesn't add up very fast at 10 cents per row.  But if we could manage 6 rows at a time like grandpa and dad, well then, we might just get somewhere! 
       I have a very distinct memory of being trained to hoe beets when I was about 5 or 6.  I had a half hoe and I would trail along behind them, with our puppy bouncing through the field behind me.  They would pick out a weed for me that was big enough to see but small enough that I could get it out.  When I had that one taken care of I would run to catch up and they'd assign me another weed.  If I hoed without asking what time it was then I could go in after a half an hour to watch cartoons, otherwise I had to hoe during the cartoon.  (I caught on quick.)  
       Grandpa and Matt.  Every year grandma and grandpa used to take Matt and I to Lava Hot Springs.  They put us in the backseat of the truck with a book of Lifesavers for the trip there.  I now know that was to keep us quiet.  :-)  One year they took us to the store to pick out a toy.  I remember the effort it took to convince grandma to get crayons to go with my coloring book so I could use it before I got home.  Matt and Grandpa came back with a cart so full of toys that they had to take the corner slow.  I'm sure you can imagine my chagrin. 
       And it wasn't even Matthew ... Grandpa put up quite the argument about how they couldn't put back the army tank or army men or squirt guns or bubble gum, etc.  We compromised:  the boys had to part with a few things and I picked out a doll and the biggest box of crayons!  I also remember grandpa riding along to go pick up our new puppy.  Matt and I were having a hard time agreeing on the cutest puppy ... so grandpa suggested we bring home two!  That was the last time Dad brought him along to get any pets!  Shopping with grandpa still goes pretty much like this, by the way. :-)
       My grandpa has written me letters ever since I left for college.  Hand-written pages full of jokes, commentary on the weather, admonitions to stay well, updates and news, warnings about running out of gas, and a little gas money.  And every letter ends with "Make sure you don't work too hard.  You have to have a little fun."  I have a huge pile of letters that I will always cherish.
       Grandpa and Sarah.  Does this look like a "grandparents house" or what?!  And I think that owl pillow might be back in style - I wonder where it's at, lol.  We used to sleep at grandma and grandpa's house all the time.  I feel like I was in second grade when they made a rule that I had to sleep at home more nights during the week than I slept at grandma's house.  I always slept in grandpa's white t-shirts and on the floor at the foot of their bed.  Every morning grandpa would step on me when he headed out for lines.  I'm still not sure why I didn't sleep in the perfectly good bedroom across the hall, lol.
Grandpa and Matt.
Grandpa reading stories to Matt and Sarah. 
Grandma, grandpa, Matt and Megan in front of George K's. 
Grandpa playing memory with me.
       How can you not love this picture?!  Grandpa laying on the floor reading the paper with a bunch of toys spread across the floor .... and Sarah with her hand in his mouth trying to get him to come play with her.  I love this picture! :-)  And I LOVE MY GRANDPA!

5 comments:

  1. He, Megan, this is a beautiful trupute to your grandpa. What memories and he writes to you too! Just had to let you know this was great.
    Still praying.
    I love you Grandma Jan

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  2. Megan,
    You have certainly been blessed with a wonderful family heritage. We have always loved your grandpa too, and we sure know that he loves you. See him in the grocery store once in a while, and he always has a word to speak about you.
    And we love YOU too!
    John and Linda

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  3. Hello Megan, I sat Grandpa down and showed him how to look at the blog and then left to do something in another room. Soon I could hear noices so I walked back in and he was crying and he was only on the second or third picture. It touched him. Have a Great Day, Dad

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  4. You're grandpa sounds really like an interesting person and it's wonderful that he shared those pleasant memories with all of you. And he deserves recognition for being a faithful man.

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